Proxemics... Nothing but space and opportunity

There isn't really an exciting role behind my room. because i was the baby in the family i was just given the smallest room. however, i still make it work  to my best interest.  Upon entering my room there are a few things that stand out about how a person will perceive or behave in this setting or environment.  The first thing someone should notice about my room is the wall paper border that surrounds the walls. From this it is a dead give away that tells you two things about me, that i am into sports, and my favorite team is the dallas cowboys. seems kind of childish i know right but my mother made it clear it wouldn't  be changing after she did it .  The next thing that would catch someones eye about my room is the full size comfy bed that clearly explains how big i am on when it comes to sleep it gives the room a stress free relaxing feeling.  That is why you don't really see a work space within my room because i don't wish to clash work in a stress free environment.  Bringing work into my room would start to affect my work status causing me to feel lazy or tired because of how the room is set up.  I expect many to see while observing that my room is in tip top shape and order letting the viewers understand that being neat is a characteristic of mine. The shoes are put away, the bed is made, and there are no dirty clothes hanging around.  From this picture my room has a welcoming atmosphere, nothing is hidden or secretive. how the room is set up, everything is right in clear view.  Taking a glance of my dresser tops, you might find some interesting things about me. There sit many photographs of my family and i, letting one know how important they are to me along with a stereo, my iPod and headphones.  Music is the one attribute that finishes off my room.  Take a walk around my room, and you might just get to know me.

While listening to others I am always told that one of the best ways that I communicate nonverbally is that I make good I contact. I try to make sure that I do not look away too often which will help let the person who I am speaking with know that I am really interested. I sit up in a straight position and turn my body towards them which helps prove that I am tuning everything else out and they have my undivided attention. I believe that good or bad nonverbal communication skills will define the outcome of a relationship with a person. A nonverbal gesture I would need to work on is I am told when I ‘m lying that I tend to crack a smile or say a certain word which gives me away. Using my hands more when speaking is another nonverbal action that I need to work on. I think to others nonverbally that I do a good job communicating, I know I can read many other’s actions very well. Often I try not to leave anyone with a bad impression that would make them feel uncomfortable. Sometimes I catch myself giving wrong signals by either making continuous eye contact or sitting too close next to someone. I usually wait and read signals from other people before I choose what to do. My reactions are based off of what their nonverbal actions are sending. One impression I would want to leave with someone is that I’m a comforting and welcoming person.